3.14.09: Should a Man Put His Wife Over His Momma?

A man only gets one mother and in her eyes
he will always be a priority.

But when he makes a commitment to another woman,
the role she once held as leading lady in his life
can take a back seat.

Now for some this isn't a problem, but for others drama
can arise when the wife feels he isn't taking a stand
and putting his new family first.


So ladies and gentlemen:

Should a man put his wife over his momma?

1.9.09: 'You Sleep with a Crazy Man...

and you're going to have a crazy baby!'


This is a statement I heard recently. And although
I do believe that everyone has their own distinct personality,
the apple --far too often-- does not fall far from the tree.


So ladies and gentlemen:

Do you agree with this?

1.3.09: What's the Worst Way to 'Sell Out'?

There are many ways to sell out.
When you abandon who you are to become
who you are not, that is selling out.


a. follow a paycheck and not your passion
b. marry outside of your race
c. abandon your community
d. stay silent when you should speak up
e. choose abuse and neglect over love and respect
f. other:__________

12.2.08: Can Money Make an Ugly Man Look Good?

'He pulled up in a BMW. As he stepped out of the car,you could see the shine from a mile way. The gleam was so distracting that it was hard to take your eyes off of him long enough to notice the woman in the passenger seat and a baby in the car seat.


It was raining that day.


With no umbrella in hand, she opened her side of the door to take the baby out while he ran as fast he could into the building to assure he didn't get wet. He offered no help, not even to open the door.


This man wasn't only ugly in face, he was also ugly in spirit.'



So I ask:

Can money make an ugly man look good?

11.29.08: 'But I'm Stripping to Pay for School.'

Is the explanation given by many women.
Fast cash for exploiting your ass.

A woman doensn't only strip away her clothes.

Pride,
respect,
and
dignity

is stripped in the process.


So I ask:

Is education worth more than self-respect?

Oral Sex (vs) Sex: What Do You Consider More Intimate?

Whether lying down in bed or giving head,
both are truly intimate experiences.

You open yourself up (figuratively and literally)
to your partner's energy, both negative and positive.

Regardless of your position, you're still in a position
that creates a connection/union along with an exchange of energy,
bodilyfluids, and emotions...

So I ask:
Do you consider oral sex more intimate than sex itself
or are they both equal?

8.26.08: Are Hoes and Housewives the Same?

"But what's the difference between what we do and what a married woman does? A wife has to spread her legs, take care of the children and do things for her husband to get what she wants from that man. To be able to use the credit card(s), get her hair and nails done, and make the marriage work. Funds are still being exchanged. And if she isn't doing her job, he's coming to look for me! A husband is a woman's pimp. Because at the end of her name is HIS NAME..."
said a PROSTITUTE on a talk show.

So my ladies and gentlemen:

Is there any truth to that statement?